Luna
Causholli

Photos by Adnan Beci, reporting by Briseida Mema and Camille Bouissou
Sonore 1
I actually played football with the boys from my neighbourhood. Back then, there were no teams for girls. Every time my dad and I tried to look for one, there were only boys’ teams — and they wouldn’t let girls join.
So I played with the neighbourhood boys instead, and we just made it work, playing whenever we could. The boys were usually five or six years older than me — I was ten or eleven at the time.
I played well enough — at least I never broke anyone’s nose heading the ball. I absolutely loved football, it was a real passion. Until the moment I thought, either I keep doing this, or I do something even more beautiful.
And that’s when music came into my life.
That’s when I let football go — also because I no longer had a team to play with.
Sonore 2
When I started elementary school, already in first grade, I was bullied a lot because I played football and was “like a boy”.
But I was just being myself, and I had to stay true to who I was.
That was a difficult time for me, but thank God my family was there. They were always there whenever I faced something hard.
Sonore 3
We girls want to be exactly who we want to be.
I can be calm. I can be spiritual. I can be feminine. But I can also be rebellious, I can also be masculine.
I can also be that girl who really loved football — and that’s okay.
But the truth is, I’m really happy to be a girl.
Sonore 4
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Sonore 5
In the world we live in, we face difficulties. But one way or another, we girls always manage to get through.
No matter what kind of hardships we face in life — whether they come from boys or from other girls — we still find a way forward.
Sonore 6
There is this word: “girlhood.”
Sonore 7
And it’s the most beautiful thing to see girls supporting girls.
Being together, laughing together, having each other’s backs.
It’s something very beautiful, very rare — and honestly, not so easy to find these days.
Sonore 8
“No, she doesn’t dress well. No, she dresses like a boy. No, she wears makeup. This one does this, that one does that…”
I don’t care. It doesn’t interest me.
Or, to put it another way — excuse the expression — I don’t give a shit.
Sonore 9
Here in Albania, people judge all the time. They judge…
As if they didn’t already have enough going on in their own lives, and needed to interfere in someone else’s — just to make it harder.
Sonore 10
Sometimes I feel like the world will never fully understand gender equality.
It will never truly understand that women are who they are — and that they should be valued, not judged.
But we girls, one way or another, will end up telling them: Stop. Enough. You’ve judged us enough.
We’re here now.
And we’re going to do our best — to be the best versions of ourselves.
My name is Luna Causholli, I’m 21 years old. I am a student in the Musical Arts program, in my final year of my bachelor’s degree. I am a singer and songwriter. Music is my passion! If we’re talking about truly great joy, my biggest joy would be the birth of my two younger sisters.
My biggest challenge was understanding myself and gaining self-confidence, music helped me. I am proud of my family, big and united. I am also very grateful for my ability to create. A talent that I will turn into art, which I hope will positively influence people my age and have a good impact on people my age and influence how they think and what they do in life in a good way.

"When I started elementary school, already in first grade, I was bullied a lot because I played football and was 'like a boy'. But I was just being myself, and I had to stay true to who I was."


"But the truth is, I’m really happy to be a girl."

"But one way or another, we girls always manage to get through."
#Girlhood


"They judge… As if they didn’t already have enough going on in their own lives, and needed to interfere in someone else’s — just to make it harder."

"Stop. Enough. You’ve judged us enough. We’re here now. And we’re going to do our best."
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